I guess the problem with any list is that those qualities are quite abstract. It’s hard to quantify how much on one quality you find attractive. Take fun for example. He/We might think something is fun, but might not be your type of fun. So I guess the problem is with interpreting the list and who does the interpreting. I sometimes see women asking for respectful partners, and when you watch from the outside you can clearly see their current partner is not being respectful. Hard topic ;)